Cyberbully in relationship

As you that cyberbully is being cruel to others by sending or posting harmful material using technology. Means that an individual or group that uses information and communication involving electronic technologies to facilities deliberated and repeated harassment or threat to an individual or group. Nowadays cyberbully one of the hot issues among teenagers, because they are who over exposed about technology and communication since they was born.

            Average age for victim cyberbully unpredictable, it might be child, teenagers even older also may be the victim. There is no specific facts for determined whether boys or girls that mostly being aimed. Because we as normal thinker don’t know what and why they did cyberbully on us. Sometimes they said that to get revenge on their enemies, on side said that they were in traumatic situation so they would not let someone that he or she hates having happy life. Disturbing and mental abuse are the ways cyberbully went off.

            Overall based on my research, cyberbullying may affect someone in mental and physical. They might be fear for facing reality after anonymous from internet said something bad action if they going out or reported to police. One of the worst will happen is commit suicide, cause they even can stand anymore with all of those things. Person who is being the victim sure will be alone, no friends, weak relationship between parent, silence and sad emotional because of cyberbully. Behaviour totally changes, your teen seem fidget and nervous all time and physical changed loss weight, they also feeling hopeless and helpless.

            Sometimes, we don’t know the initial sign of a cyberbully in relationship because it’s not obvious. May be you think that it was your friend but not see any actual signs of friends, it make you confused in time. So, if you are in a relationship, basically you need to find out the real of your partner in and out. Characteristic of your partners, most important thing your need to figure out and test him/her how they overcome their anger or problem. They settle with calm or they get revenge in silence such as cyberbully. Different person different ways their will calm down, sometimes it will 1 over 10 person live in revenge but you would not see the character from outside. Yet you can see the way they speak, eye on people and may be body language.

            Failed in relationship is one reason your ex/partner take this action for hurting you. They might start insulted you with your bad past days, spreading and making bad story about you then posting any social network packages with your several photos. You don’t know he or she doing this because they may be good looking and treat you well s friend. Yet they are betrayed and start make you feeling scared by cyberbully. Jealous partner always be the one who is interested to do this to his or her partner because from this way they can satisfied they own. Tries to control and limit your movement in daily life, make you worry about your safety instead of your family.

            In relationship you only see that your partner very kind person, not bossy person and always be the perfect one in front of you. Instead that, may be or not all partner have bad intention to their partner, such as having sex or forceful for something. So in social network they pretend to be someone, who will pressure you for sex. If you denied or ignored it, they will threat you and making bad story about you and post it for public view. Totally shame is they really doing that. So, you in dilemma for choosing the solution, you mind having critical process until you decide the wrong way to escape the order which is commit suicide.

            Cyberbully only the choice for pyshco person to do what they think they right without mind it before. Mostly they could do this in family. Maybe because of jealous or lack of love among siblings. It could be serious if he or she start insult or tell their family problems to public. When all people know their family background which is involve their bad past, probabilities to loss job are there. Family getting put blame between each other, no manner, no slow talk and divorce. Only because of cyberbully can ruined everything that built years.

            Lastly, we should be aware to those we close and friend. Because there is no reason to do cyberbully even you have a good relationship between each other. Cyberbully random pick and sometimes they to get revenge on somebody. There so many effect to our self if facing cyberbully. So think twice and don’t be afraid to reported cyberbully, that was the good solution for it.